MarkHastings
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This kills me...Why do you think you have to be 'aiding' society (in an obvious way) to fulfill a 'purpose'??? That's the kind of thinking that leads many people into having kids (that otherwise wouldn't). It's this "I have to do something worth while or my life is meaningless" thought. That's crazy!
What about your software? That (obviously) helps someone out...whether it be a specific person or just a corporation, it's helping. Take video game development...do they really benefit society? Not really, but they help reduce stress with those who enjoy playing them. That is definitely helpful for society.
From the Doctors that perform heart surgery to the guy who delivers the cotton balls to that same hospital...they all serve a purpose in making life better.
Sometimes it's the things that we don't think make a difference, that makes the biggest difference.
p.s. I just had a conversation with someone who knew a woman (in her 40's) who would lie to her family about a boyfriend (who she claimed was away on business during the holidays) just so she didn't have to listen to them complain about her being 'single'. People feel that you HAVE to get married and you HAVE to have kids in order to be getting the most out of life. I seriously question that line of thinking. As was stated, that may be natures plan, but if we only follow natures plan, than our own existence is kind of meaningless. It's just a bunch of "instinctive/planned out" moves. That's not what I'm making of MY life. There's more to my time here (or at least I'm going to make more of it) than falling back on what nature expects of me.
What about your software? That (obviously) helps someone out...whether it be a specific person or just a corporation, it's helping. Take video game development...do they really benefit society? Not really, but they help reduce stress with those who enjoy playing them. That is definitely helpful for society.
From the Doctors that perform heart surgery to the guy who delivers the cotton balls to that same hospital...they all serve a purpose in making life better.
Sometimes it's the things that we don't think make a difference, that makes the biggest difference.
p.s. I just had a conversation with someone who knew a woman (in her 40's) who would lie to her family about a boyfriend (who she claimed was away on business during the holidays) just so she didn't have to listen to them complain about her being 'single'. People feel that you HAVE to get married and you HAVE to have kids in order to be getting the most out of life. I seriously question that line of thinking. As was stated, that may be natures plan, but if we only follow natures plan, than our own existence is kind of meaningless. It's just a bunch of "instinctive/planned out" moves. That's not what I'm making of MY life. There's more to my time here (or at least I'm going to make more of it) than falling back on what nature expects of me.