All but the top 3 are not in any order.
Starz Boss - Who would have thought Kelsey Grammer had this kind of performance in him? Outside of things like Fraiser, then the HBO "Pentagon Wars" and a few other light hearted films, it was hard to imagine him in the role of a arm twisting politician who'd use people ruthlessly to control city government. But Grammer owned the screen here, turning in one of those performances that drove the program forward. The supporting cast fit their parts well, but this was one of the best performances by a lead actor this year, period.
Breaking Bad - In the past, I've listed this as one of the best shows on TV. It's still very good, but I didn't enjoy this season as much as previously; too much stretching of the narrative when I felt it didn't work. But Cranston's performance was still top notch, and we managed to get deeper into how dark the enterprise can go.
Game of Thrones - HBO's presentation of the GRR Martin book was about as faithful as you could hope for; and the performances and acting turned out. Peter Dinklage is almost a shoo-in for best supporting role this year, and he deserves it.
Supernatural - After so many seasons, could the Winchester's capture magic again? Their prior season (not current, which I'm hoping rallies and ties together in the second half) finished with one of the best runs in over it's term - including some of the most brilliant comic meta I've ever seen in a show (Actors playing characters who jump back into themselves as actors who are playing the characters they actually are.. now wrap you're head around that one). Made for Friday Night appointment viewing.
Modern Family - if there is a better family comedy on TV, I don't know of it. Suprisingly wholesome and cute, the show displays some sharp writing and fantastic comic timing that can change from a series of puns to slapstick to situation. This show keeps raising the bar on what to expect.
Shameless - Is it possible you can take a UK series, place it in the US, and actually do something unique and different - and be good at it? For as many shows that have tried, and failed, Showtime's Shameless dead on works. Rossum and Macy delivered performances that went from having dramatic punch to laugh out loud comedy moments. Great performances, great cast - and one of the best pleasant surprises of the season.
Parenthood - I've participated in the threads and spoke my peace, but Season 2 of Parenthood, along with so far in Season 3 has been appointment viewing for me. It's tight cast, attention to details makes you want to stay involved. Characters who do things you completely dislike or disagree with you at least say to yourself: "for what I know of this character, that's the way they would/should behave". Smart writing, good stuff.
My Top 3, In order:
3. Switched at Birth - I can't think of any show that surprised me as much as Switched at Birth. I had really low expectations for an ABC Family show that seemed to be geared at a teen audience. I was completely prepared from episode one for this to be an over the top fest to try and bring in young girls. I could not have been more wrong. The series over the summer was a pleasant surprise, and characters really settled in quickly. Some of the thoughts above, and I know I post frequently in the show thread for this one, but it's handling of a disability has been frank and honest but never condescending. Characters deal with real issues in a way that feels real - no matter whether you find the plot contrived or not. This is a show that set a very high bar for itself in the first half of a season, and I have high hopes it can continue.
2. Homeland - Showtime's terrorism drama delivered two of the most stunning performances of the year for me. Claire Danes and Damian Lewis fill their roles and convey such complex characters, there really isn't much on TV to compare them to. Damian as Brody plays a conflicted POW, witness to the horrors of war, tortured, who now believes maybe he was on the wrong side, or at least the fighting must stop. Claire as Carrie plays a brilliant CIA analyst with a hidden secret of suffering through a bipolar disorder. The performances here by everyone in the cast was sensational; even side plots had real serious weight. In a few minutes, Homeland could convey the Saul's loneliness with a life that afforded him no time with his wife; Carries obsession with not being wrong, and how a family would adapt to a father who came home from war broken. The last episode of the season was very dark, as pointed out, but it was edge of the seat riveting and it kept you watching the whole way through. One of the best rides on TV.
1. The Good Wife - Is there a show on TV better written, week to week, then the Good Wife? If there is, I haven't seen it. The Good Wife maintains an incredibly high quality per episode and uses guest actors better then any show on TV. One of the largest ensemble casts on TV gives all of the characters a real three dimensional feel; none of them just advance the plot, they all have motives, concerns - a reason to buy into what's happening. How good is it? Even the defendants and plaintiffs manage to get time to make their cases feel real enough, to challenge your view on the outcome and to ask the audience to think about the argument. That's amazing for television that is so used to spoon feeding us the story. The Good Wife, instead, takes on complex issues and let's their characters deal with it. Lockhart & Gardner isn't all good guys. But they aren't bad guys. It's a grey area. Lots of The Good Wife is "a grey area". When a new episode of "The Good Wife" airs, I have almost complete confidence that within that hour characters will grow/change, and we're going to get a story I want to talk about the next day. This is water cooler TV at it's best; a show that makes you think about what's happening. If you're missing "The Good Wife" you're missing some of the best stuff on TV.
Honorable Mentions:
Not Eligible in this list, but if it were I'd put it there: Downton Abbey. ITV's period drama delivers week after week, and the sets, acting and structure are some great TV. While it wouldn't be in my top 3, it'd be on the list.
Bones - It's a procedural. It's episodes in a bottle. But it's a great ensemble with great chemistry and they took a huge risk this year. Surprisingly, rather then fall into a rut, the writers have really used the storyline in a way that rings true with the characters and has made for some fun TV.
American Horror Story - Dark. Violent. Gory. Over the top. And a fully cohesive story. Which is saying something, since we're talking about the executive staff from "Glee".. this is as far away from that as you can get, but it pays off.