* Are you sure your Blu-ray player is set up to output an HD picture?
Pretty sure - I jumped through all the "So you're turning me on first time" hoops correctly, I think.
What kind of TV do you have? What is its resolution? What size is it?
Lets see, I've got a monster big screen 52" Mitsubishi HDTV. It's a touch old - about 6-ish years (give or take, I don't remember exactly when I got it). And it indeed is 1080 - at least according to the front.

. I can dig up the manual if you want the exact model number.
How is it calibrated?
I have no idea, because I didnt do the calibrating. It was the delivery men came by and lugged the thing into my house, they did all the setting up for me. They plugged a gizmo in and aligned the guns and did a whole bunch of red/green/blue tests.
How is it connected to your Blu-ray player?
With the - oh crap, I can never remember if it's component or composite. I've got the cables that break the signal into the red and green and blue, that if you plug them into the wrong sockets, the picture looks like a bad tye-dye job.
And I wasn't trying to be trollish. I guess I was caught up in the crushing disappointment of having what was being touted as The Next Big Thing look like. . . . well the exact same thing that I've had all along. That was not my intent.