So after 13 months of not finding what I want on the used market I gave in and have put a deposit down on a new, yet to be built house with my exacting custom specifications. I literally chose every option that suited my fancy, tho I stopped short on a few things like the tray ceilings and double ovens.
There's only two problems.
-I blew my budget by about 30k (oops)
-I had to actually buy in the town/city of Aberdeen.
The good news is that while for tax purposes I live in Aberdeen (bad juju) the house is VERY close to Churchville, which is rustic and rural. So in my mind it's a downside but it's actually not too bad cause it's out in the sticks like Churchville is but I still get all the services of Aberdeen including City Water, City Sewer, Natural Gas etc. and I will have FIOS on the day I move in.
I will say that doing this is going to let me build an epic Home Theater in the finished basement. =) I'm having the basement finished pre-construction and it'll have a full bath down there plus a walk up stairs, so it's techically able to call it a bedroom I guess. The other possible downside is that it is a Ryan home, and if you google "Ryan Homes sucks" there's definitely some unhappy campers out there, and I have taken that into consideration, but found the positives outweigh the negatives. I have 4 coworkers who bought Ryan homes in Cecil and Harford and they have nothing bad to say at all.
If you care to see what mine will kinda look like, you can see a virtual tour of the model here:
http://www.motion-vr.net/ryan/ryan_tours.aspx?tn=806
I'd never be able to afford this house up in NJ (Hell I'd never be able to afford it if it was 10 miles over in Bel Aire) so I'm pretty jazzed to get it. Just waiting on mortgage finalization now and then I'm stuck in hotels still till Mid March at least, but the end of the tunnel is in sight.