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Originally Posted by
Michael Reuben 
Yes, it's sad that, even after Adam Ferren publishes his various emails and opens a PM box, people still don't avail themselves of this simple remedy for an ad problem.
Com'on, Michael. While I can understand that you don't appreciate others taking pot shots at HTF and/or Huddler about this stuff or similar, I don't think you need to get so defensive about it as to paint such a broad (and seemingly disdainful) stroke in your critcism in a quoted response to Sam's terse remark either -- and I've even recently personally defended you (to some extent) in some PM correspondence w/ someone else regarding some of your recent responses on HTF too. I thought you pride yourself in being more careful in wording your responses than that.
Yes, Adam Ferren's contact info for this type of matter is now available somewhere in a post in this subforum, but it's not like there's a big red REPORT AD PROBLEMS button that nobody can miss for that you know. And why should HTF members be publicly criticized (w/ such "sad" commentary no less) just because we didn't do the extra work to dig up that post for whatever reasons (legitimate or not) or didn't bookmark it (or similar) for quick-and-easy access in order to report a problem that HTF *SHOULD* address for its membership, especially in light of the software/platform/format change?? We're not talking about something nice-to-have that should only matter to a select few afterall -- you were personally very annoyed w/ that Montreal ad too, IIRC. And at least we're posting here in the forum feedback section *and* in already existing threads on these topics.
I also understand (and agree) about not appreciating much of the me-first and/or entitlement mentality that goes on in our society these days, which I suspect is part of the underlying subtext here (although maybe nobody else is consciously thinking that at the moment), but I don't think offering feedback about this matter or reporting a problem ad in this thread (or similar) under the circumstance qualifies as such, if that's what's rubbing you the wrong way (beyond Sam's remark).
I'm not defending Sam's remark, but again, I don't think you needed to paint the rather broad stroke in your response to him, if that's really all that was. I'm aware that you yourself often call others out for painting seemingly broad strokes in their criticisms, so I'd think you know better than to do that yourself in this instance even if that was not really your intention.
My apologies in advance if I've needlessly misinterpreted your intentions, but OTOH, like I was taught in one brief communications class, you probably haven't effectively communicated to others if they/we didn't get what you actually meant to say -- to see what I mean,
http://www.effective-communication.net/ shows up at the top of a quick google on that matter. And to paraphrase some other wise saying, if you choose to judge (and be judgemental toward) others, you're gonna end up getting judged in the same way yourself...
But thanks again for all the good work from the various parties involved. I certainly do appreciate that even though I apparently committed the "sad" act of not using the most direct way (seemingly in Michael's opinion) to report the problem.
_Man_
PS: I'll reiterate here (like many others before me whether on HTF or elsewhere) that good/clear communications on the net can be difficult at best, so let's try to reserve judgement whenever possible, ok? And again, my apologies if I just committed that "sin" myself -- and also, my apologies for turning up the verbosity (and getting up on a "soap box") a bit on this matter in this post.
Edited by ManW_TheUncool - 9/28/09 at 6:33pm