Re: Jamie Lynn Spears (16) is pregnent
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| Please, there are many 16 year old High School Juniors and many 19 year old High School Seniors. Let's make sure we call the police if they start dating... |
I agree for the large part. Most states have Romeo & Juliet laws which say that if there is less then 3 years age difference, they aren't prosecuted as a sex offender. That makes sense.
I won't name names, but I personally know someone who ran into this issue. He was 19 (Sr. in HS) his GF was 16 (Sophomore), they were dating for some while (about 6 months if I remember right) her father caught them having sex in his car after prom.
Result? He got prosecuted and pled no contest, which didn't seem like a big deal at the time, paid a small fine, no jail, etc. etc. etc.
EXCEPT now he's a registered sex offender and everywhere he goes he has to register with the county authorities that he had sex with a minor and was convicted.. I spoke to him a year ago and he says that while he can explain when people ask (in a kind of funny twist, the two are married now and have been for about a decade now) most people don't ask, but they think they "know" what went on, because the sex-offender list doesn't tell people the specifics of what happened except for "Sex act with a minor"
So, yeah, there has to be some re-thinking on how that kind of prosection goes down.
BUT, if it is a significantly older person (like say, 35 / 16) then the age difference is stark, because at that point, the 35 year old should have known much better then to ever be involved.