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post #61 of 70

Pauli:

 

It sounds like you know you are doing the right thing...but are extremely aware of the void it will leave in your life.  It will only hurt so much because of the strength of the relationship.  Your life has been blessed to have had Sasha in it (and for 16 years!). 

 

It will hurt.  But it sounds like Sasha is probably in more pain than you know. 

 

I'm sorry for your loss.  You will always have such wonderful memories of your time together. 

 

Mike

post #62 of 70
Had to put my 13.5 year old Black Lab down this year after a series of mini-strokes. She had very expressive eyes and I could tell at the end that she was so uncomfortable. It was without a doubt the hardest thing I've ever done, but I always said (after seeing our dogs suffer terribly when i was a kid) I would never, ever let my own dogs suffer for weeks or months before making the decision. I still think about her every day but it gets a little easier as each day goes by. I have another Lab who is nearly 15 years old, so I'm afraid I'll have to go through the agony all over again before too long.
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post #64 of 70
I know how painful this is. Just put my lab down after 16 years, this was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. At the end she could not walk anymore, it was amazing how fast her health declined. I know I did the right thing but it was still painful. It sounds stupid but she was my friend, looking back when my ex walked out the dog spent a lot of time curled up on sectional with me watching movies.
post #65 of 70
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Originally Posted by CalvinC View Post

I know how painful this is. Just put my lab down after 16 years, this was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. At the end she could not walk anymore, it was amazing how fast her health declined. I know I did the right thing but it was still painful. It sounds stupid but she was my friend, looking back when my ex walked out the dog spent a lot of time curled up on sectional with me watching movies.


Why would you comment that "it sounds stupid" when describing your relationship with your pet?

My pets are my best friends. They bring such joy and love and companionship to my life that to think of them as anything less than true friends, would be so very wrong.
post #66 of 70

Well, we all probably know some people who don't have a clue as to how close a bond a human can have with their pet. 

 

 

post #67 of 70

^^ Exactly what I was going to say. Our dog is part of the family and we often refer to him as our First Born. I know some people who even have pets who never mention them, never comment on them, and then one day I'm like "Wait a minute, didn't you have a cat?"

post #68 of 70

I think there is another thread about putting pets to sleep. The VET should be the one next to the owner of making that decision of whether to put down or not.

post #69 of 70
How about giving a dog that is not suffering a longer life. Install a doggy door with a small fenced in area so they can go out at will. It works. My dog still shows me signs that she wants to be around when I walk around the yard and I look back and she is running to catch up to me. Watch for the little signs that shows she still enjoys life. If they are suffering with any pain, then that when you start to decide.
post #70 of 70
I've had to put cats down, only after very serious illnesses. Now regret not doing it earlier.

Had an Italian Greyhound, which can live very long lives, but now she's gone. I got terribly ill in 2007, hospitalized for weeks, barely made it out alive. Had a friend take care of my dog for several months while I was hospitalized then a month or two recovering at home. I began to get my health back and brought the dog home. Not two months later she died. Nothing apparently wrong, took her in for a vet check and all was fine. She always checked on me about every two hours. I could be working in the yard, the kitchen or just being a plain old couch potato. She always had her favorite sleeping spots so I always know where she way. Having adjusted to the het checkups on me, I got worried when it reached about 3 to 3 1/2 hours, so went checking on her.

She had died quietly in her sleep, I was devastated, but she was way past saving. Pretty sad for me, but one of the best ways for her to go. No pain, no stress going to the vet, peaceful way to go.

It was very sad at the time, because I really needed a companion and she was gone. Finally got a Black Lab about a year ago and contrary to many opinions, it really does help to get another pet, just give it some time.

Back to your post, please don't let the dog suffer or keep it alive artificially. I know a man who had a cat with kidney failure. Every day for at least two years he injected the cat with fluids twice a day. These wern't little insulin injections like I used to take, but big syringes with 4-5 ounces of flud twice daily that had to be fairly painful.

Had another friend who loved her dogs, way past their time. No painkillers, no surgeries, just let them go on.The saddest part was she had a German Shepard whose hips were failing.She lived on the second floor of a house, garage, etc. below so the dogs were forced to climb stairs to ge into the home.With the German Shepard, could litterally hear the pelvic and thigh bones click and grind together, along with seeing the icredible pain the dog was in.

These may be extreme examples, but please don't let animals get to this stage. There may be easy cures, better medicines and treatments, but whatever you don't let them suffer. Animals are very stoic and may not net on how painful things really are. Please consult your vet and don't keep an animal around just because it make you comfortable, the animal itself may be incredibly uncomfortable and in a lot of pain, just now letting you know

Some things may be very minor, that's what your vet can take care of it. If it's worse, don't prolong things so that you get a few months or more of comfort while the animal suffers.
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