Holadem- your "rim" comment reminded of the latest Chris Rock special on HBO.
That's exactly right. I often say to people "I don't have any money" when asked to do things (eat out for the 3rd time this week, take a spur-of-the-moment cruise, etc). I once made the mistake of leaving my Quicken open when I let a family friend burn a CD (for archival purposes, of course
). She says, "WTF, you're broke alright.
" So, now I say, "I don't have any money... for THAT."
One thing I see here, is how we tend to seemingly value high income over high net worth, here in the US. A showy lifestyle, with the biggest house, the most expensive car, the "trophiest"
vacation, the best private school education, etc. Most seemingly would choose this over making a more modest income (with fewer hours worked) and having a substantial savings in the bank. I used to fall into the former. Somewhere in the last ten years I eased over to the latter, intentionally so. I'm glad I did, for now while I occasionally worry about whether I'm doing the right thing with my savings, I don't worry about having enough.
Some of you may want to read "The Millionaire Next Door."
Todd
P.S. I have the Home Theater, and the old car hobby. Double trouble.
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| It's all about different priorities. You can certainly afford a 10K plasma TV with your $30,000 dollars spending money that you have this year, but that would cut into other spending. Different choices, that's all. |
One thing I see here, is how we tend to seemingly value high income over high net worth, here in the US. A showy lifestyle, with the biggest house, the most expensive car, the "trophiest"
Some of you may want to read "The Millionaire Next Door."
Todd
P.S. I have the Home Theater, and the old car hobby. Double trouble.




