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| Meet the Parents, i thought it was funny, but i barely made it through the first time i saw it and can't stand watching it anymore. I just can't stand watching the protagonist make mistake after mistake. |
ahh that I understand, I occasionally have the same problem. I get TOO into the movie and get very upset when the protagonist is incredibly 'dumb' and doesn't stop making retarded decision on top of decision that just makes things worse and worse.
I've found a way to enjoy these types of movies though (Like Meet the parents, or another genre I have the same trouble with, horror). If I catch myself getting angry with the stupidity of the protagonist, I sit back, tear my mind out of the world of the film as brutally as possible and tell myself repeatedly, "I don't care about any of these people; it's just a movie; it's a freaking comedy; THIS IS FUNNY; I should be enjoying this!; everything will work out fine in the end because its a popular (or screwball) comedy!" I'll repeat this to myself several times. and then go back (now that i've forcibly removed/prevented myself from caring too much about characters that were designed to be more stupid than my seven year old sister and try to enjoy the movie.
This worked wonders for Dead-Alive/Braindead, which made me realize my problem is not so much that I don't like horror, but that I'm too empathic and invest myself TOO much in the characters on the screen. which bites you in the ass when you're supposed to be laughing at the character on the screen instead of sympathizing so much that you're berating him for being a retarded fool.
Damn but I really want to go watch an S&S or thirties movie right now. especially since I've been AWOL from both for a while now. stupid 3000 word research paper...
Adam




