MichaelDDD,
as far as "channel matching" volume wise, allways calibrate your system. so even if your receiver only puts out 50 watts a channel and the external amp puts out 200 watts a channel, after calibration, you know you will have the same power being USED in each channel. As far as the receiver amps sounding different than the external amp, well you wont notice it with your mix and match kenwoods anyway so dont worry

, no seriously, there are discussions about that, I would say your receiver colors the sound more than the external. If you can tell a difference or it bugs you 6 months later, just purchase matching external amps for all your speakers

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"timbre matching" is a whole different beast. theoretically, the fron three should be as close as equal as possible. the surrounds arent as important.
what is your music/movie ratio.
I guess my suggestion is that you prioritise your speakers. like the mains are the most used, then center, then surrounds. I, like you have a mx and match speaker system, and budget is what restricts me from having matching speakers all around, but I dont think about that when Im watching movies. When I can afford new speakers, then I will consider my options.
hope this has helped