Hey George,
It would be very helpful if you could tell me the Amplifier you are using, as well as the JL 10 model numbers.
I've been running JL for years, and have never had them blow up on me, and I abuse them

. I fear that you may have a deeper problem.
Also, the wiring configuration will help, (IE if you are using a 4 channel amplifier, is it bridged? Also, are the 10's you have dual voice coil? If so, the way you have them wired is crucial.)
I personally love JL, and doubt i would consider another sub, (although the Alpine Type R and the Infnity Kappa's turn my head :-D ).