Greetings
History lesson.
In 1939, when the founding fathers of the NTSC tv system were developing the system ... they said that one day the NTSC tv system would be capable of displaying big screen images. Images as big as ... 19" ...
And there you have it. The NTSC system was never designed to go bigger than 19" and you are looking at it on 46" and asking why it looks like crap.
I bet your PIP looks okay does it not? Well under 19"
Only the infusion of more than a trillion dollars will fix this problem for you ... (pull out that checkbook

)
A test disc might fix a few of the basic things but the stuff you talk about will remain. (Part of that Trillion+ Dollar solution)
Regards

Michael @ The Laser Video Experience
THX Video Systems Instructor
ISF Calibration Instructor
Lion A/V Consultants Network