okay..first; you REALLY need to think about the header to your thread!
My wife would consent to a projector if I will consent to some nice curtains that draw in front of it. I countered by offering not only just curtains...but on a motorized remote no less. For her, it is about blending...which kinda makes me wanna go out and get blended myself, but that thought may be where you want to start. Continue on the road of integration, as you did with the stuff you have now.
Did I mention I am taking delievery of a 60 inch Sony Wega LCD on Saturday? Too good a deal to pass up. Maybe next year.
All I know is...if my wife is satisfied...I get so much more of what I want. Get out the incense, wine and candles..valentines day is coming!