Hi Edie.
The problem is your VHS/DVD player is wired to 2 different inputs on your TV:
INPUT1 - VHS wires
INPUT2 - DVD wires
Even if it is 1 box - the output wires are like you have 2 separate box's.
The menu system in the box comes out the DVD wires. Check the manual to see if you can change this.
Sound problems: Everyone notices when switching from VHS to DVD that they have to turn the volume up for DVD's. There is 2 reasons for this:
- VHS sound is artifically high
- DVD sound can swing in a much greater range from quiet to loud than a VHS tape. For the same volume position - DVD's sound quieter
Could I make a recomendation? Call your cable company and get a cable box that includes a DVR/PVR feature like Tivo. You will find that you never touch your VCR again. The hard-drive recorders are much nicer/faster/easier to use and you never have to set the time. In my home, the VCR is in a closet and we almost never watch live TV.
Also, since your TV says things like "480i", I assume it is a HD TV? Many cable companies are offering HD PVR box's. It's very nice and very cool.
Hope this helps.