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I have the same problem. I'm 23 and haven't had any good friends since high school.
The people I work with are ok (and there are 1000 employees). Some are nice and I consider them aquantainces, but none of them I'm interested in becoming great friends with.
Another part of the problem is that I don't care much for other women, so all my friends tend to be male. However, I can't just go up to a guy and say "hey want to come by my place and hang out?" without him thinking I'm hitting on him. I'm happily married so I want no part of it. Also, most guys I encounter immediately get interested when I talk to them, as if they can't understand the concept of a platonic friend. I know, I know, I understand how guys think most of the time.
So anyway, I have yet to come across someone who is interested in similar things I am that I'd be interested in being good friend with. I don't do the bar or club scene, I prefer to hang out and watch movies or work with computers, and am very much a homebody.
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