My friend gave me his used MX-3000 remote and I can not find the software anywhere for it. I called URC and they said that any time the the customer adds new components to his or her home theater, the customer has to have the selling dealer/distributor come over and add the components. I told tham I live out of state from where it was purchased and the local dealer wants $200 a visit to program it. This could get very expensive! I simply asked them if I could buy the software, as I upgrade my home theater a couple of times a year all the time. They said no. Does anyone here know how to obtain the software? Or should I just get a Harmony 1000 instead of paying upwards of $200 a visit from my local URC dealer? Please help!