While there are a number of brutal deaths I can remember that stick in my head, the infamous 'headache' in Scarface, some quick shots in 'Taxi Driver' (I was born in 77 and my parents were very liberal with my movie watching)but the first thing that popped into my head was:
Transformers: The Movie When Optimus Prime is dying and says "Do not grieve..." that was pretty much the queue for all the little boys in the audience to start grieving. I was eight and I think it was the first time I really came to know what 'death' was.
I would definitely include the first victim of the shark in Jaws (and the second for that matter). I saw the film when I was about 6 and I rarely venture into the sea on holiday :frowning:
The sacrifice of a slave in Indiana Jones and The Temple Of Doom was also another film that gave me nightmares for months.
I guess its movie deaths that I saw as a child which affected me most.
Forrest Gump: For some reason, the line in Forrest Gump where Mama says: "I will miss you, Forrest." That simple line drives home the fact that death is forever.
Those are the kinds of scenes I was thinking of in starting this thread. They don't have to be grandly moving or spectacular, but there's just something about them...
I'm reminded of Coppola's commentary on the Godfather DVDs, where he says he always tried to add some unusual detail to each hit that would make it memorable, like a joke ("Leave the gun, take the canoli") or some weird detail (Carlo kicking out the window, McCluskey choking on his food, etc.)
When Bishop is skewered from behind and ripped in half by the Alien Queen (not really a death since he's an android) When you're a kid that kind of imagery just sticks with you.
When Bjork is dragged from her cell at the end to walk to her execution, Bjork's acting is so raw that I couldn't help but be deeply affected long after I watched it. I have it on my shelf and have not yet watched it a second time.
The most disturbing death EVER is in Platoon when the one legged, mentally challanged kid gets his head smashed in by Kevin Dillon. What's brilliant about that scene is you NEVER actually see the violence. Ultimately I think the scene has MUCH more impact by not showing the violence rather than showing it. Also, the close up of the mothers face after the killing is truly shocking. This scene gave me nightmare for weeks.
I can't believe that no one has mentioned "Full Metal Jacket". On an "anniversary" episode of "Ebert and Roeper", there were clips from old episodes of "Siskel and Ebert" being shown, and in one, Siskel and Ebert were arguing because Ebert gave thumbs down to the movie and Siskel said something like "I have never felt a death so much in a movie". Ebert countered by bringing up a few other movies, one of which was "Apocalypse Now". I agree with Siskel on this one, because I thought the most disturbing death I've ever seen in a movie was the one in "Full Metal Jacket".
On a side note, I hated "Apocalypse Now" and was not emotionally affected by anything that happened in that boring, pointless movie.