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Headline from today's Newark Star-Ledger (New Jersey) regarding the cancellation of MLB events;
"It's Only a Game."
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"It's Only a Game."
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Pay tribute by donating blood, not watching football
By Pat Forde
Special to ESPN.com
Amazingly enough, this apparently bears repeating: The worst attack ever on American soil occurred on Tuesday, and we're supposed to skip back into our sporting daydream again by Saturday? How scarily self-interested and desensitized are we?
If Americans feel the need to gather somewhere in this time of crisis, make it the local church, synagogue or mosque. Not the local stadium.
If Americans want to show support for the victims, do it at the Red Cross blood donor center. Not with a five-minute pregame dog-and-pony show designed to alleviate guilt before the show begins.
Question for those trolling this web site today: Do you know more about the Titans or the Taliban? Doesn't this seem like an excellent time to alter that imbalance, instead of rushing back out to the ball yard in an effort to escape the real world?
But not all of us will. The games go on in the Southeastern Conference, the Big 12, the Big Ten and other leagues, at least for schools who wish to play. Football is big in those places -- big enough that hypocrisies cling to the sport like barnacles. Today we see just how big.
Bigger than life.
The machismo addicted want the games to go on, because cancellation shows that "they" won. You know what? They did win Round One. They have the videotape and the bodies and the fractured skyline to prove it, and playing football Saturday does not present a credible counterpoint.
They will play ball Saturday. And in doing so, they are making a tacit admission. They don't truly care about the people who died or truly appreciate the gravity of what happened Tuesday.
They will play ball Saturday. And in doing so, they are making a tacit admission. They don't truly care about the people who died or truly appreciate the gravity of what happened Tuesday.
I think that's very unfair. This is a horrible tragedy, but life must go on. I wouldn't want to go to a ballgame or see a movie right now, but there are those who do, and they are not less caring than others, they just deal with it differently. We don't need to start a caring-competition based on who can go the longest without having fun, we need to help those who need help, improve security, find the guilty and do our best to prevent it from happening again. If I was one of the victims that's what I'd want, and I would want people to remember this tragedy and make the best of it, and I would know that just going to a football game (or playing football) doesn't mean that they don't care.
/Mike
Can't we have just one weekend of grief and self-reflection and pondering of the days to come before we return to your regularly scheduled programming?
I agree with you that we should, if it were up to me. But I think the choice must be with the individual. If noone showed up for these sporting events, that would make a strong statement. However, I think it's wrong to start telling people how they should handle the situation, just because they handle it differently (yes, even if they handle it by, for a few hours, trying to forget these horrible images and events we've seen the last few days).
Just because someone goes to a football game on Saturday, doesn't mean they didn't go to give blood on Friday, or that their thoughts and best wishes aren't with the victims and their families.