Well me and my fiance finally sat down and decided on a date, October 19, 2002. We went out last night and bought a wedding planning book from B&N, and man so much to do and in what seems to be such little time. Is there any advice that those of you have done this before can give me. I have so many questions. Like the big one right now is to serve a meal at the reception or not to serve a meal? Many difficult choices adhead I fear.