Ryan Wishton
Screenwriter
- Joined
- May 17, 2003
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I think you read the statement wrong... I dont mean running out and having the money to buy some huge whopper of a diamond for kicks... What I mean is that someone without a pot to pee in shouldnt be getting married... I truly believe that... Like it or not, people need money to live... Contrary to popular belief, most people cant live off just love... Thats why money problems are a huge cause of divorce...
For example, my cousin proposed to a girl, but needed to get the money from his parents for the ring... He couldnt even afford a small ring... The point is if you dont have the money for even a small ring, that means you probably dont have the money for important things such as rent and utilities... Not a great way to start off a marriage...
Leila Dougan,
Dont feel bad or shallow about it... Most people (men and women) want something they actually like, especially something such as their ring... Look how some on here go on and on about their home theaters... It's just natural... Some people may not say this, but you can be sure that if a woman is wearing a ring she never really liked to begin with, she is going to be thinking about it... Some woman would never say they hated their ring even if they did, but you can tell just by the looks on their face if they like it or not...
I figure if the ring is going to be bought anyways, it might as well be the something she likes... She has to wear it... Sure, it is suppose to symbolize love, etc., but there is nothing wrong with liking the style either...
Take the mother and future wife example... The ring should be representing of the future wifes tastes, personality, and likes... This ring is going to be a part of the wife, not the mothers... If the mother feels the need to pick out a ring, she can pick out one for herself...