OK, I'm not sure if I'm serious or not or even know what that is. I'm 35 and have a 3yr old girl who pretty much has been tearing me up physically and mentally since birth . I know I have ahead of me tons of work to raise her. I feel too young to act old and too old to act young Not much in terms of work since all my energy has been with the family and ponder if I should have done more earlier. Not much in my marriage since the birth of my darling child. It's like being single again but not single if you get what I mean . Feel ugly and unattractive. God I sound like a pregnant woman . Body don't feel the same. Been finding too much white hair. So is that it? Any experts out there?