Elizabeth S
Senior HTF Member
Valentine's Day means nothing to me. Yeah, sure, when I was involved with someone, I might bake him something. Nowadays, I hate the whole idea of love and relationships. I hate the societal expectation that everyone is "supposed" to be in a relationship. I'm so much happier out of one. Loving someone gives them power to hurt you, and because I am an extremely obsessive person, it is much healthier to be alone. Honestly, some people are not meant for relationships. I've had the love of my life, it put me through hell, but I don't regret it. But I have no desire to feel those things again. Loving someone makes me a NEEDY, weak person. Meaningless flings never hurt me, but I just prefer being alone nowadays -- I may feel differently someday, but maybe not.
Most of my co-workers, friends and family know my feelings on this matter and DO NOT talk about these things with me.
Most of my co-workers, friends and family know my feelings on this matter and DO NOT talk about these things with me.